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| HDIF when other couples support us? |
| How many hours do I watch TV in a typical day? In a typical week? HDIFAT? |
| Do I try to make the world a better place? HDIFAT? |
| Where would I like to go that I have never been? HDIF about going there with you? |
| How do I handle conflict? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you give me a sincere compliment? |
| We had so many hopes on our wedding day. HDIFAT? |
| Do I try to see things from your point of view? HDIFAT? |
| In what area of my life am I living as a married single? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about spring cleaning? |
| HDIF about inviting a lonely person or single parent into our home to celebrate Christmas? |
| When our calendar is full, I feel _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about embellishing the truth, especially if it makes for a good story? |
| Have I ever felt used or rejected in sex? HDIFAT? |
| Risking builds confidence. Confidence builds trust. HDIFAT? |
| How can I reduce the level of stress in our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about sex being a decision? |
| HDIF when I receive a gift? |
| HDIF about leaving our children for a few days? |
| Do I take without forgetting? HDIFAT? |
| I am most likely to criticize one of my people about _____. HDIFAT? |
| Why do I want to be fulfilled (sexually) by you? HDIFAT? |
| What acts of kindness did I do today? HDIFAT? |
| What is the meaning of my birthday to me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about other people keeping secrets from me? |
| What is the most exciting thing that ever happened to me? HDIFAT? |
| Do I enjoy being seen nude by you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when other people say they do not dialogue? |
| Do I believe we are part of God's plan? HDIFAT? |
| The greatest gift a mother can give to her children is _____. HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time I left you a love note? HDIFAT? |
| Do I cheat on my taxes? HDIFAT? |
| I try harder to change when I _____. HDIFAT? |
| Our neighbor lives alone. HDIFAT? |
| Describe a time when I felt concerned. HDIFAT? |
| Am I a loner? HDIFAT? |
| What expectations of myself do I have? Do I live up to them, or not? HDIFAT? |
| What qualities in Mary as a mother do I also see in you / me? HDIFAT? |
| What do I need from you when I am feeling crummy? HDIFAT? |
| As a child, what was I like? HDIF about the person I used to be? |
| HDIF when I am hungry but cannot or do not take time to eat? |
| HDIF when I am sulking? |
| What is my favorite pet name that you call me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about asking others for help with things I cannot do by myself? |
| What happens when we are able to reveal all of ourselves to each other? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am aware that you have had a bad day? |
| HDIF about praying the scriptures with you? |
| What do I think you find difficult to tell me? HDIFAT? |
| Do I find criticism hard to take, even when I know it is constructive? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we spend an evening alone together? |
| I find it irresistible when you touch me _____. HDIFAT? |
| What difference does the Eucharistic celebration make in my life? HDIFAT? |
| What things do I let defeat me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our experiences in the church? |
| HDIF when I see the other man / other woman? |
| HDIF when I am holding you close to me? |
| HDIF about the appearance of my teeth? |
| Do I prefer the company of people or animals? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we must borrow money? |
| HDIF I can be more fully present to you? |
| How can we reach out to a single-parent family? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my spiritual growth this Lent? |
| When have I felt most wanted? HDIFAT? |
| I am a better person because of my people. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you laugh at me? |
| What Christ-like qualities do I see in you? HDIFAT? |
| Are we too involved or do we lack involvement in ministry? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I sense you are attracted by other men / women? |
| What do I think is my most serious fault? HDIFAT? |
| Is one of us overly dependent on the other? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time I complimented my people? HDIFAT? |
| Is there anything you are doing by yourself that I would like to be involved in? HDIFAT? |
| No matter how often I am right, I will sometimes be dead wrong. HDIFAT? |
| What have I given away? HDIFAT? |
| We have had no time for recreation. HDIFAT? |
| Does my true self come out under stress? HDIFAT? |
| Have I ever been betrayed by a friend? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the differences in the way we discipline our children? |
| HDIF when you listen to me with your heart? |
| How has the atmosphere in our home changed because of our growth? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF as I reflect on the expectations I had on our wedding day for us? |
| Do I feel comfortable hugging you and the children? HDIFAT? |
| What were my emotions / feelings on Friday night as we began to experience the weekend? HDIFAT? |
| Am I suffering any disillusionment in my relationship with God? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am unloving? |
| HDIF when we are too tired for each other? |
| HDIF when God allows you to suffer? |
| Are we equal partners in our decision-making? HDIFAT? |
| When I close myself to you, I close a channel of God's grace. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you anticipate what I want, making it unnecessary for me to ask? |
| HDIF about hearing all seven readings on the Easter Vigil? |
| Do I turn my troubles over to the Lord? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about Halloween? |
| HDIF when things do not go according to plan? HDIFAT? |
| What charism (strength) do I have from the Spirit that helps the world believe? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF being with people who go up like a rocket and come down like a rock? |
| Are we as romantic as we need to be? HDIFAT? |
| What are the maybes in my life? HDIFAT? |
| Where do I believe God has called me in ministry? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you express a need for more leisure time? |
| In what way has our acceptance of each other created a new world for us? HDIFAT? |
| When working on a big project, am I more likely: to start at the beginning and take it step by step - start with the end and work my way back - or dive in somewhere in the middle? HDIFAT? |
| I looked forward to celebrating this day with you because _____. HDIFAT? |
| Could I live without TV for a day? For a week? For a month? Forever? HDIFAT? |
| What I think you love most about me is _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about dying today? |
| HDIF when I think about Christ's coming at Christmas? |
| What do I find most attractive about religious life? HDIFAT? |
| I am happy to be alive today because _____. HDIFAT? |
| How does the organization (or lack of) in our home affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| How can we incorporate prayer into our daily life? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I lose a cherished or prized possession? |
| Do I love God? HDIFAT? |
| How does our financial situation affect our intimacy? HDIFAT? |
| How does your relationship with your parents affect us? HDIFAT? |
| How does my / your fear of pregnancy affect us? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about doing things nobody else wants to do? |
| Our Lord calls us to love each other unconditionally. HDIFAT? |
| Am I more likely to avoid the dentist or go on a regular basis? HDIFAT? |
| Am I taking care of my body? HDIFAT? |
| How well do I control my temper? HDIFAT? |
| Overnight guests made their own bed. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you change your mind after we have agreed on something, or made a decision? |
| Do I love my people more for them, or for God? HDIFAT? |
| When do I duck the responsibility for making decisions? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I become a married single again? |
| How well do I take care of my true needs as opposed to my selfish wants? HDIFAT? |
| How has my love for you changed since our wedding? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about going shopping with our children? |
| How do I behave when I am treated unfairly? HDIFAT? |
| Do I try to do my best, or do I try to be the best? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I know our lovemaking is about to begin? |
| When was the last time I felt healed by sharing a feeling in our dialogue? HDIFAT? |
| Have my eyes been open to seeing the Lord's miracles around me? HDIFAT? |
| Have I ever run out of gas? HDIFAT? |
| What smells have an emotional association for me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about attending a sporting event with you? |
| HDIF about making a monetary sacrifice so that others can experience the weekend? |
| In what areas have we grown because of past failures? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when faced with change? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I forget our anniversary? |
| What was the worst day of my life? HDIFAT? |
| How have we been judgmental of our people? HDIFAT? |
| What is my favorite means of relaxation? HDIFAT? |
| What would I like you to do to make it easier for me to trust you? HDIFAT? |
| What do I most like to do in my free time? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when a friend helps me? |
| I enjoy my relationship with my people the most when _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the anniversary of Roe versus Wade? |
| Am I content just to wait when I have done all I can? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about _____'s most recent report card? |
| HDIF being around people who brag about themselves? |
| In what ways am I willing to purify myself to become Holy? HDIFAT? |
| What do my friends say behind my back? HDIFAT? |
| Do I know what others want from me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about your ethnic background? |
| HDIF when I judge you are angry with me? |
| HDIF about spending a night with you at a local hotel or motel? |
| How do I think people perceive me? HDIFAT? |
| Am I more likely to put a decision off to the last minute, or make a decision immediately? HDIFAT? |
| What areas of our relationship do you take responsibility for? HDIFAT? |
| What can I do to make our relationship stronger? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I shake out the rugs? |
| Do I enjoy ethnic festivals, or do I feel threatened by them? HDIFAT? |
| Someone hit our car. HDIFAT? |
| Neighbors are having a party - we are not invited. HDIFAT? |
| Do I have a nickname? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: Did we argue because we remember things differently? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF knowing God used us to bring about a conversion? |
| What have you done for me today that I am most grateful for? HDIFAT? |
| Do I consider myself mature for my age? HDIFAT? |
| Do I see myself the same way God sees me? HDIFAT? |
| What would it be like for me if you died first? HDIFAT? |
| How do I see myself through your eyes today? HDIFAT? |
| My greatest goal in life has been _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do I have any dreams that I have not shared with you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I go and help a friend of yours? |
| How did you fulfill the longings in my heart when I first met you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about helping other people who are out of work? |
| HDIF when I am able to tell you what bugs me? |
| During an average week, what activities enhance our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Mary was open to God's will. Are we? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when the house is a mess? |
| How can I make Thanksgiving more meaningful? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about trying to live a simple and more fulfilling life? |
| HDIF about having to work overtime to make ends meet? |
| HDIF about being asked to volunteer, as opposed to volunteering on my own? |
| What do I most need from you tomorrow? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I make a mistake? |
| What qualities in your mother do I also see in you? HDIFAT? |
| Do I wear a smile each day? HDIFAT? |
| What about you turns me on the most? HDIFAT? |
| What do I do that helps bring me happiness? HDIFAT? |
| What do I think I will always remember about our family? HDIFAT? |
| One thing that brings me joy in our relationship is _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do I ever listen to you with my eyes? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about dialoguing with another couple? |
| HDIF about the way my ministry influences those around me? |
| HDIF about working many hours in a room with no windows? |
| Something bothering me about our relationship is _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I take you for granted? |
| What are some of the barriers to my forgiving you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about how well I show my love for you? |
| Do I try to control my people sometimes? HDIFAT? |
| God sees us as very special because _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do I have a bad habit that I would like to get rid of? HDIFAT? |
| Have you recently said something that made me feel uncomfortable? What? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about experimenting in our sexual relationship? |
| HDIF when I see Christmas displays in October? |
| What do I see in you that makes me love you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF being around people who demand and expect perfection? |
| Do I believe the dead are in a better place? HDIFAT? |
| What is my favorite Christmas tradition? HDIFAT? |
| Do I have a problem forgiving others? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF knowing this could be your last day to live? |
| HDIF when relatives visit? |
| Where would I most like to see growth in our relationship this year? HDIFAT? |
| Do I read the obituaries? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our children's grades? |
| What do I think other people see in us as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| What topic would I most like to see discussed in our community of couples? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the way I look on camera? |
| HDIF about tithing the first part of my wages to the Lord? |
| HDIF when I have done all that I can do and must wait for results? |
| What are my attitudes about marriage? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the way we make our money? |
| How do you handle conflict? HDIFAT? |
| What is it about our sexual relationship that I find most enjoyable? HDIFAT? |
| Are my sexual values changing at all? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the way our yard looks? |
| HDIF when I visit people in the hospital? |
| Forgive us our sins as we forgive other people. When I pray this, HDIF? |
| If I did not know how old I was, how old would I be? HDIFAT? |
| What areas in our marriage are poor? HDIFAT? |
| Do I see us as too old for romance? HDIFAT? |
| Am I actively involved in our children's religious formation? HDIFAT? |
| When was a time we received support during our difficult times? HDIFAT? |
| How can I tell when you are happy? HDIFAT? |
| What would I change about the way I was raised? HDIFAT? |
| How do I need to change to make me your favorite person? HDIFAT? |
| Are we committed to dialogue every day? HDIFAT? |
| How do I fail sometimes as a good listener? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about being older or younger than I am today? |
| Have I ever thought about being a missionary? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the way our children respond to you? |
| Do I think separate nights out is good for our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| Would I be willing to get professional help if our marriage was in trouble? HDIFAT? |
| Describe a time when I felt lonely. HDIFAT? |
| How well do we share our wants with each other? HDIFAT? |
| Do I ever feel God present and working in our marriage? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I hear the Beatitudes? |
| What is my least favorite household chore? HDIFAT? |
| What was the last nice thing I said to you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about sex in the morning? (Better try first!) |
| What one thing has most united us this past weekend? HDIFAT? |
| What strengths do you bring to our sexuality? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we cry after watching a movie together? |
| HDIF when I see you down on yourself? |
| Where do I get most of my enjoyment from TV? HDIFAT? |
| We should give God the same place in our hearts that He holds in the universe. HDIFAT? |
| Am I good at keeping secrets? HDIFAT? |
| Have I been life-giving to you today? HDIFAT? |
| Is our love strengthened by the time we spend together? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you do not say anything about something I have done? |
| It is said that we are an Easter people. Are we an Easter couple? HDIFAT? |
| What is the first step I take to cope with the stress in my life? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I get a chance to entertain children with knock-knock jokes? |
| What barriers or attitudes keep me, or keep us, from being more romantic? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we are not in a pattern of regular dialogue? |
| Whom do I need to forgive? HDIFAT? |
| What is the reason that I keep from forgiving myself? HDIFAT? |
| How far back can I trace my family tree? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the reactions of our friends to Encounter / Retrouvaille? |
| HDIF when I keep my needs and emotions / feelings from you? |
| Are we still passionate about each other? HDIFAT? |
| What are we doing to enrich our parish or church? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when others are impatient or rude with me? |
| Am I a passionate person or not? HDIFAT? |
| Are there any emotions / feelings I consider to be wrong to have? HDIFAT? |
| As a child, did I make prank phone calls? HDIFAT? |
| What bad effect has the example of your parents' relationship had on ours? HDIFAT? |
| How do I see our strengths as a couple? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about getting other people's advice for solving our problems? |
| Do I take enough time to pray routinely? HDIFAT? |
| I like / dislike fixing breakfast because _____. HDIFAT? |
| What would you most like me to change? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about adopting a child? |
| When I consider our financial condition, I feel _____. HDIFAT? |
| Do I expect you to read my mind? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you want some time alone? |
| Our sexual relationship is a mirror of our total relationship. HDIFAT? |
| What are my memories of our first year of marriage? HDIFAT? |
| What are my expectations of you in the area of sex? HDIFAT? |
| What prevents me from listening to you? HDIFAT? |
| Do I just make sure I am not cheated, or do I make sure I do not cheat? HDIFAT? |
| Do I listen better to you or to others? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about being of the Catholic / Jewish / Lutheran / Methodist faith? |
| HDIF about people who arrive for work early? |
| HDIF about a second honeymoon? |
| What is my worst habit? HDIFAT? |
| When I resist change, I feel _____. |
| Will we eat meat on Fridays this Lent? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when the telephone rings in the middle of the night? |
| HDIF when I (wife) / you (husband) do not wear make-up? |
| HDIF sharing the details of my workday with you? |
| HDIF about mid-life changes in a marriage? |
| In one word, my father is (or was) _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I laugh at you? |
| Take and eat, this is my body. HDIFAT? |
| My favorite weather is _____. HDIFAT? |
| How has our love grown since our wedding day? HDIFAT? |
| How much caffeine do I drink in a normal day? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I want to be honest but am afraid of hurting you? |
| When do I feel closest to you? HDIFAT? |
| Today, I am most thankful for _____. HDIFAT? |
| Are we talkers or non-talkers? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about your relationship with our children? |
| Do I listen to others, or do I try to analyze them? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you initiate sex? |
| HDIF when one of us tries to manipulate the other? |
| HDIF when you say, That was stupid? |
| What type of TV shows do I choose to watch? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the steady, routine parts of my day? |
| How much anger do I carry in my heart? HDIFAT? |
| Have I ever lost sight of my dreams or goals? HDIFAT? |
| Apart from God, we can do nothing. HDIFAT? |
| What are my expectations of you as a husband? HDIFAT? |
| Do I consider myself to be open or closed minded? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about going home for the holidays? |
| How do I see God's love reflected through you? HDIFAT? |
| Do I learn from the mistakes of others and listen to their advice? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about planning a winter holiday with you? |
| Where do I place my people on my list of priorities? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the coming of spring (or other season)? |
| HDIF about a big turkey dinner on Thanksgiving? |
| Did we keep the true spirit of Christmas? HDIFAT? |
| How do I see God reflected in other people? HDIFAT? |
| Conviction is worthless unless it is converted into conduct. HDIFAT? |
| How can I be more open to those around me? HDIFAT? |
| What values of mine differ from yours? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you brag on me? |
| What is one of the greatest moments of my ministry or priesthood? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am indifferent toward you? |
| HDIF about being on time? |
| HDIF about becoming holy by being your lover? |
| Am I a worrier? HDIFAT? |
| Do we have make love often enough? HDIFAT? |
| When do I most feel the presence of God? HDIFAT? |
| When do I get impatient with you? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF telling _____ about my problems? |
| After a fight: Is it easy or hard for me to ask for forgiveness? Why? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I fix you a drink? |
| Do we ever laugh with our children? HDIFAT? |
| Where would I like to be next year at this time? HDIFAT? |
| What do I most need from you when I am trying to get through a difficult situation? HDIFAT? |
| If I could change one thing about myself, what would it be? HDIFAT? |
| When have I thought we were truly one? HDIFAT? |
| How can I tell when another couple is really in love? HDIFAT? |
| Are you more like your mother or father? HDIFAT? |
| Where do I need more patience in my life? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I see you totally open to me in our lovemaking? |
| Do I have the attitudes and behaviors of a happy person? HDIFAT? |
| Do I need to be more connected with the people in my life? HDIFAT? |
| What is my dream for Encounter / Retrouvaille? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I quarrel, judge, or reject your emotions? |
| HDIF when I am standing in a packed elevator? |
| After a fight: Was there an easier way? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I accomplish something I am proud of? |
| How can I be more gentle with myself? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our current level of involvement with our extended families? |
| What unresolved problems do I see in our marriage right now? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I realize you are not coping effectively with stress? |
| Am I too predictable? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we do not have much time to dialogue? |
| What personal goals have I set? HDIFAT? |
| Each of us belongs to the other (I COR 7:3-5). HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about other couples supporting us? |
| Have I ever witnessed a miracle? HDIFAT? |
| What have I enjoyed most in the challenge to dialogue? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I try to convince you of something and you cannot accept it? |
| HDIF when we argue because we remember things differently? |
| HDIF when we look at pictures from our wedding? |
| Are family meals together important to me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we are intimate? |
| If I had only two days to live, how would I spend them? HDIFAT? |
| What is my deepest regret of last year? HDIFAT? |
| When was the last time we sat and watched falling stars together? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF after hearing the story of the prodigal son? |
| HDIF telling you something I know you are not going to like? |
| Do I have a strong sex drive? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I am accepted and cared for? |
| Where do I feel the need to be reconciled with myself? HDIFAT? |
| What gifts has God given to me and how have I used them? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you say, I can never understand you? |
| Do I get more enthusiastic about things than the average person does? HDIFAT? |
| Do I see you through my heart or through my head? HDIFAT? |
| What, if anything, causes unnecessary stress and complication in my / our life? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we read a book together? |
| HDIF when no one refills the ice cube trays? |
| What do I do that annoys my people? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about being neat or tidy? |
| Do I consider myself bigoted in any way? HDIFAT? |
| Where did I put dialogue on my list of priorities today? HDIFAT? |
| Have I ever been accused of something I did not do? HDIFAT? |
| What am I capable of doing with the help of others that I cannot do by myself? HDIFAT? |
| It is suppertime and I have eaten too much. HDIFAT? |
| I see myself as I was at 10 years old. What do I see? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our financial future? |
| HDIF about compromises? |
| HDIF about family reunions? |
| HDIF when I make love but do not ask in a clear way? |
| What cartoon character am I most like today? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I try to make light of a serious situation? |
| When you criticize me, my reaction is to _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you massage my head? |
| HDIF when someone tells a joke that makes fun of someone of my profession / ancestry / gender? |
| HDIF when I know you are proud of me? |
| Do I give my best to our family or to others? HDIFAT? |
| Am I facing getting older with grace and dignity, or with complaints and longing? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the way our family spends money? |
| HDIF laughing with you? |
| Do I live what I preach? HDIFAT? |
| What do I perceive as the biggest threat to my priesthood / ministry? HDIFAT? |
| If I was about to die and could only tell you one sentence, what would it be? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about having a picnic in the park, just the two of us? |
| HDIF about sharing my failures? |
| If I could change one and only one thing about the world, I would change _____. HDIFAT? |
| Am I pro-life or pro-choice? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about my family's aging and health-related problems? |
| How close are we as a family? HDIFAT? |
| After a fight: Did I misrepresent or stretch the truth? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about going somewhere for the day without planning what to do there? |
| What did I want to be when I was little? HDIFAT? |
| What more can I do in the time that I have left? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I admit my fears? |
| HDIF when you say, It is your fault? |
| Do I ever put off doing someone a favor or helping someone out because I do not have the time? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when you say, I am sorry? |
| Our dialogue is our recurring yes to each other. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about our children's manners? |
| Are we in denial about anything? HDIFAT? |
| Which of your qualities do I take for granted? HDIFAT? |
| What special gift of myself do I offer to you today? HDIFAT? |
| How does my mask (personality style) interfere with our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| What am I willing to sacrifice to make my relationship with God better? HDIFAT? |
| How does our schedule affect our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| What do I miss about school? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about trading baby-sitting with friends so we can have some nights at home alone? |
| What special gift of myself do I offer to God today? HDIFAT? |
| How long have we known each other? HDIFAT? |
| How have I changed in recent years? What made me change? HDIFAT? |
| Does my family have a reunion? HDIFAT? |
| How much of me will I have to give up to make the marriage work? HDIFAT? |
| What does Valentine's Day mean to me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I reflect on what a gift you are to me? |
| Do I like what I am doing, or am I doing what I like? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF after we make love? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I realize I have hurt you? |
| HDIF about your travel schedule? |
| HDIF about having an interdependent relationship? |
| Did I view marriage as an escape from something? HDIFAT? |
| Joseph and Mary are at our front door. Do we have room? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when friends fail to do a promised favor? |
| HDIF when someone else gets the parking place I am waiting for? |
| HDIF about our wanting our relationship to succeed? |
| HDIF when I witness a marriage? |
| What do we spend most of our time talking about? HDIFAT? |
| What struggles do I go through trying to write my dialogue letter? HDIFAT? |
| I enjoy hearing my people talk about _____. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when we are not able to handle the pressures in our relationship? |
| HDIF when I have to ask you for money? |
| HDIF about having a shared journal of thoughts and feelings? |
| What would I personally like to try to help make Encounter / Retrouvaille better? HDIFAT? |
| Describe a time when I felt indifferent. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I remember our anniversary is coming up soon? |
| Am I satisfied with our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| When I think of sexual desire, I think of _____... HDIFAT? |
| We have committed ourselves to loving each other for a lifetime. HDIFAT? |
| Our furniture needs replacing. HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when outside activities keep us from spending time with our family? |
| What kind of relationship do I have with your in-laws? HDIFAT? |
| How has our non-verbal communication helped our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about the nudity on TV? |
| What effect has growing up experiencing my parents' relationship had on our relationship? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I know that I have hurt you deeply? |
| HDIF when I have the urge to surprise you with an unexpected gift? |
| HDIF about the need for priests / ministers? |
| HDIF about our eye contact with each other when we are talking? |
| HDIF dealing with imaginative people versus dealing with realistic people? |
| Are my expectations about our lovemaking being met? HDIFAT? |
| What are our biggest differences? HDIFAT? |
| These are my needs that still go unmet: _____. HDIFAT? |
| Am I able to forgive myself? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF when I think you have judged or rejected my emotions / feelings? |
| Which of us usually makes the decisions? HDIFAT? |
| Do I ever say no to lovemaking when I know I should say yes? HDIFAT? |
| Am I living up to my potential? HDIFAT? |
| How does the season (spring, summer, winter, fall) affect me? HDIFAT? |
| HDIF about joining the Parent Teacher Association? |
| Where do we need to go in our sexual relationship? HDIFAT? |